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Oromocto, Looking to travel masc discreet. yes married need fwb Overland park. Single searching fuck Just a few thoughts to consider
Im not really looking for anything, Im single, never married but if something is meant to happen it will come.
Anyway Im not sure why I started reading these postings, curious I guess but in doing so it occurs to me that there are a lot of people out there that dont understand themselves very well, that yearn for one thing and yet think they want something else. They want happiness and think they can get it through somebody else. They want love but chase after obsessively desirous attachment when the two couldnt be further apart. Take these thoughts for what you will, we all see things through our own preconceived perceptions to one degree or another anyway but its good to step out of ones shell to attempt an honest glimpse without the bias of a lifetime of conditioning. Im sure most of you will dismiss these things out of hand, its to be expected, but the only way to change anything is to forge a new understanding of ourselves and the world around us. Nothing can ever change in ones world unless one changes the way one thinks as perception is the lens through which one interprets all one experiences
Anyway some thoughts to consider
WITH THAT MOON LANGUAGE
Admit something:
Everyone you see, you say to them, "Love me."
Of course you do not do this out loud, otherwise
someone would the cops.
Still, though, think about this, this great pull in us to connect.
Why not become the one who lives with a
full moon in each eye that is
always saying,
with that sweet moon language,
what every other eye in
this world is
dying to
hear?
The Secret
I need a drink, wine maiden, that cup with grape stain lined,
for love that once seemed pleasing has burdened down my mind.
Ah smell how West Wind wafts her musk through the tavern door;
now feel our pumping hearts beat fast, watch our fears unwind.
Why do we who visit love think wed stay forever?
We know the yearn to wander will always lovers find.
So we asked the Elder: What law makes love bring pain?
Sobriety, he laughed, youll feel better when youre wined.
Your plight cannot be aided by that dull fear to risk
the toss and turn of loves dark storm upon the ocean blind.
See clear in all these gathered friends who still hold you dear
loves secret is that you must love without desires that bind.
Enjoy the one you love, drink deep single wife looking hot sex South Burlington and embrace;
seek not with her to please your world, just give love and be kind
The Clod and the Pebble
"Love seeketh not itself to please,
Nor for itself hath any care,
But for another gives its ease,
And builds a heaven in hells despair."
So a little clod of clay,
Trodden with the cattles feet;
But a pebble of the brook
Warbled out these meters meet:
"Love seeketh only Self to please,
To bind another to its delight,
Joys in anothers loss of ease,
And builds a hell in heavens despite."
Some Fill With Each Good Rain
There are different wells within your heart.
Some fill with each good rain,
Others are far too deep for that.
In one well
You have just a few precious cups of water,
That "love" is literally something of yourself,
It can grow as slow as a diamond
If it is lost.
Your love
Should never be offered to the mouth of a
Stranger,
Only to someone
Who has the valor and daring
To cut pieces of their soul off with a knife
Then weave them into a blanket
To protect you.
There are different wells within us.
Some fill with each good rain,
Others are far, far too deep
For that.
Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.
A. Baldwin
We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.
If you want to be loved, be lovable.
Ovid
We dont get to know people when they come to us; we must go to them to find out what they are like.
Love does not dominate; it cultivates.
Do not speak so loudly that I cannot hear what you say.
We must be our own before we can be anothers.
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