Ready to jump back into life! Hi! Thanks so much for reading my posting :)
So here is the deal. I have been basiy in limbo ever since graduating from college 4+ years ago now. Sometimes I feel down on myself for it, but when I compare myself to my peers, I dont have it that bad. Over these 4 years I have slowly watched my drive and ambition slip away into the mediocrity of adulthood. Suddenly friends are gone, abroad and around the country, and new people get harder and harder to meet. My once bursting social network now mostly lives online, one of the traps I feel our generation falls into as more people have mobile lives, and anti-social tendencies. I have fallen in and out of mild and moderate depression over the last several years as well. Unfortunately, I turned to weed to help lighten the load, but in the end that became a negative in my life as well.
And you know what? I am god damn tired of it! This is not how my life is, and this is not how my life is going to be! I am passionate, I care damnit. I love life, I love laughing, I love talking, I love meeting new people, I love everything when I am not being a bitter shit. And being a bitter shit is not my natural state, so lets get it out of here!
So I need your help. You dont have to carry me, but it would be awesome if you could give me a push in the right direction every so often. I want a partner. An equal. Someone who balances my skills and personality, and can help me forge an amazing connection based on love, respect, passion, and dedication.
Lets drive to the beach and catch a sunset
Lets make a fall picnic on a tarp out by the river
Lets cook amazing meals and invite our friends over to share
Lets chat and banter, explore the universe of our minds
Lets get to know each others bodies, and enjoy every second
Lets be fit and active, lets eat well (I am good at these two already)
Lets enjoy life as a couple, help each other through the bad, and enjoy ourselves through the good. I am not going to lie, I am a partner oriented person, and I am ok with this! Family is very important to me after all, as is community!
Me Me Me:
Might as well tell you about myself. I am a sarcastic little monkey that enjoys long conversations, cooking epic meals, cartoons, and being outside. My passions in my younger life were largely academic, but I am also interested in sports and games. I spend a lot of time on my bike, and love a girl who can teach me something about the outdoors, or just teach me in general. I am very intelligent and pick things up very quickly when I want to. Sometimes I need a push to try new things though :p I consider myself fairly nerdy. Most of my friends are scientists or grad students, and I get along with other intellectuals rather well. Sometimes I come off as cynical, but I am working on having a more positive outlook on life. I am god damn cute as a button and thin/fit, but I am short. I like being short, and do not care if you are shorter or taller than me. Like, you could be 5'11 and wear 3" heals all the time, and I would just you pretty. Right now I have a job and my own place, and hope to get a cat soon
In my off time I like to read (sci-fi, fantasy, classics, novels, non-fiction), my favorite author is Murakami if you know him. I also cook a lot for fun, and I do my best to make things delicious and healthy. When I am with people I am happy just getting into a long conversation, or playing nerdy bored games. I prefer one-on-one time to groups. Group think really pisses me off sometimes :D My friends are spread around, but REALLY amazing people. I am proud of how awesome they are! I am into politics, gender/sexuality issues, the environment, and anything else that is outside of pop culture. At this point I consider myself a socialist, but this is open to change. I largely disagree with the individual greed based model that our society has taken :D I hate advertising
I am an extremely sexual person. This means I like to talk about sex, and if I am in a relationship, I like to have sex at least once a day. From my past relationships, my sex drive does not decrease over time. I hate to make sex an issue on this posting (I am NOT looking for casual sex), I just know that a healthy sex life is important for a healthy relationship, and sexual compatibility is part of a healthy sex life. Without getting into specifics I am very sexually open, and always willing to try new things!
Wow, thats a lot to take in!
You should be intelligent, fun, and looking for a friend that could be more. Major points if you are willing to consider a relationship with the right guy, rather than just want to casually date. I am over that. Please do not be more than 30 lbs overweight. I love a curvy girl, but I am not attracted to fat, as I have put a lot of effort into staying thin. I dont care if you weigh more than me, just be confident, and able to keep up on a hike! Also major points if you are interested in having kids, because I cannot wait to be a father one day! I usually get along well with artists, scientists, feminists, queers, anarchists, and DIY folks. I know these types dont hang around Sac much, so if you dont fit into one of these molds, thats fine, I am always down to try something new, just realize that I am the alternative type, and like it that way. You wont catch me in a walmart!
Otherwise...I guess just love witty sarcastic guys that like to joke around and talk, and you will love me! I probably wrote too much, I usually do. I have done plenty of online dating with mixed success in the past. I know that basiy you just have to get lucky, so here is to being lucky! If you dont usually reply to these things, you should email me. I promise I am fun!
Please reply with a long response. My kind of girl has something to say, and isnt afraid to say it :D
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