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I am in a sticky spot in my marriage. Twelve years, Sweet housewives seeking hot sex adult web chat two, two jobs and no sex since March. I my wife very much, and every time we talk about it a new thing comes up that I need to change in order for her to want to be intimate with me But any changes I make are % ineffective. And she doesn't care or seem to do anything about it herself. It just isn't important to her. My marriage is officially termed "sexless" and I don't know what to do about it to cope. I have come to the conclusion that it is not me, at least not entirely or even mostly, and I am done fighting this all by myself. don't get me wrong I'll NEVER give up on my wife or my marriage, but I think I give up on trying to make to her. The rejection is me. The sad thing is that I am in my mid thirties and someday the old boy isn't going to work anymore. It sort of feels like a part of me is dying way before it should be. The rest of my marriage is great, as as I don't bring up sex, or get too frisky. That results in flinching and anger and a battle usually ensues. Sometimes I wonder if she's got something going on, if not physiy then emotionally with someone. I don't know how much I'd mind, I am fairly progressive about such things, but cloak dagger and lies would hurt bad. I am a good husband. I bring home flowers, I and support my wife, I try to stay fit, I do my share of housework and work, I include her in decisions, I genuinely value her input. I am a nice guy. I am a bit hairy, though. Maybe that's it :) What's a guy to do? Single Roberto, 42

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